4 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

Is your heart still pining for your ex? Now that you’ve had time to get your emotions in check, perhaps you’ve decided a breakup wasn’t a good idea after all. But what about your ex? How does he or she feel?

If your ex won’t tell you directly, then you’ll need to figure it out on your own. Here are 4 signs your ex wants you back.

Communicates With You Often

If your ex goes silent, it doesn’t necessarily mean they have no interest in you anymore. They might just need time away to figure out how they truly feel. On the other hand, if your ex constantly contacts you, even after the breakup, then it’s a pretty good sign he or she wants you back.

Staying in contact is a sign they aren’t ready to move on. They don’t want to completely end their relationship with you. Even if they contact you about negative things, staying in contact is a good thing because it means they still have feelings for you. Use a text judo sequence from Text Your Ex Back by Michael Fiore to turn your ex’s negative emotions into positive ones.

Shows An Interest In Your Social Life

Showing an interest in your social life is another sign your ex wants you back. For example, if your ex asks you if you’re seeing anyone else or wants to know what you’ve been up to and who you’ve been hanging out with. This is usually a way for your ex to gauge where they stand in your life. If your ex seems preoccupied with knowing details about your social life, then chances are, he or she is afraid of losing you for good.

Reminisces About The Past In A Positive Way

Does your ex talk about the past a lot? Do they bring up fun times you’ve shared together? Do they get a smile on their face when they talk about places you’ve been or things you’ve done together? If your ex views many past events in a positive way, then they may long to experience those things again. This is a good sign that indicates they aren’t ready to give up on you just yet.

Shows Jealousy

Uncontrolled jealousy is never a good thing. If your ex is the type who gets extremely jealous over little things, then they aren’t someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. However, a little bit of jealousy is natural and a good thing, because it indicates they care about you and have feelings for you.

So if your ex seems to get a little jealous when you talk about spending time with someone else, going on a date, or just going out without them, then chances are they still have feelings for you and would be open to the idea of getting back together.

These are all signs your ex wants you back. If you notice just one of them, then it may mean nothing. However, if you notice several or all of them in combination, then it becomes pretty clear your ex isn’t over you, and you can proceed with a plan to win them back.

Should I Make My Ex Jealous By Dating Other People?

This question has several different answers depending on the context in which it’s asked.  For the purpose of this article, I’m going to assume you want to get your ex back and are wondering if making your ex jealous by dating other people is a good strategy to do that.

Before I answer that, I want to make a few things clear.  When it comes to getting your ex back, dating other people is more about you than it is about your ex.  What I mean by that is this: the purpose of dating other people after a breakup is to help yourself heal; it’s not so you can just use other people to make your ex jealous.

In other words, don’t date other people and try to make your ex jealous just because:

  1. You’re mad and you want to get revenge on your ex.
  2. They hurt you, so it’s payback time.
  3. Your ex is dating someone else, so you want to “one up” them.

These are all situations I would classify as “negative jealousy”.  And that’s the wrong way to go about it if you want your ex back.

Now there IS a really good way to use “positive jealousy” to get your ex back after a breakup.  And it can be done using text messages.

Relationship author Michael Fiore, http://michaelfiore.org, refers to these texts as “Green Eyed Monster” or GEM texts for short.  He says,

The “formula” for GEM texts is a bit harder to quantify, so let me just give you some good examples instead.

You want to give the GEM a little bit of chain…not throw it out there like King Kong to wreak serious havoc. This basically involves carefully and judiciously letting your ex in on the positive aspects of your post- breakup life, while subtly turning the screws in their heart. (Notice how you’re combining jealousy with connection and the reminder that you know them well in a really interesting way. This is advanced Text Judo, and it’s JUST THAT EASY.” (Get all of Michael Fiore’s texts here…)

Jealousy, when used in the right way, is a good thing.  It can be extremely effective at helping you get your ex back.  But you have to do it in the right way and for the right reasons.  It has to be subtle.  You can’t just boldly flaunt some new supermodel in your ex’s face and expect them to suddenly want you back.

Dating other people after a breakup helps you recover emotionally.  It helps you feel wanted again.  It raises your self-worth.  It gives you confidence and makes you feel happy.

That’s why you do it.  It’s about making yourself feel better, which in turn makes you more attractive to your ex.  It’s not about getting revenge or flaunting another person in your ex’s face.

7 Ways To Win A Woman Over And Capture Her Heart

Do you want to learn some killer dating tips and techniques on how to win a woman over?

Well, as hard as this task might seem, the truth is that it’s pretty simple, provided you know what you are doing.

Check out the following 7 tips and you will learn how to make a woman like you back, go out on dates with you, and ultimately make her all yours. Or better yet, follow these Girlfriend Activation System steps provided by Newspapercat.org to get a woman to commit to you fully both physically and emotionally.

1. Be a gentleman

Today, women find it hard to believe there are men who can be termed “gentlemen.” It is not easy being one.

Gentlemanly acts include being punctual and available at the appointed hour, opening and holding the doors for your woman (including car and house doors), helping your date to her chair before you sit, offering your arm when walking with her, and being prepared to pay the bills after a date’s meal.

2. Cultivate your sense of humor

Man Making A Woman Laugh By Using HumorWomen, specifically, love to laugh. You need to show your woman that you can bring joy and fun to her life. This means learning how to make her laugh more often.

Try some clever shots, rather than cheap comments, crude jokes or suggestive comments. Find some great things to do and new avenues to explore to help you bring fun into her life. You’ll be able to appeal to her more, and she’ll be completely in love.

3. Groom like a pro

Believe it or not, women don’t like guys who look sloppy. Even that little belly fat may put her off. So, before you even start thinking of winning a woman’s heart, you’ve got to deal with your own.

Hit the gym, dress nicely, smell great, be confident and enhance your overall value in her eyes.

4. Compliment her sincerely

Complimenting a woman is easy, but challenging. Every woman wants to feel beautiful about themselves. The problem is always how to come up with the right compliment.

Understand how she views herself and reinforce that. Always compliment her looks, including her smile, eyes, clothes, style, hair and lips. Appreciate her physical, mental, spiritual and emotional attributes.

5. Show her that you are interested

Besides being interesting, you need to show your woman that you are interested. You are not going to show up in her life to take her for a friendly test drive. And again, she’s likely to sense it and it might make her feel unsafe.

So prior to pursuing, evaluate what you need to know about her and figure out if you are really drawn to her because it is going to help her trust you more.

6. Flirt with her

Step up a notch above the talks and compliments and show your woman what your game is all about. In the process, be confident and visualize success to help you score the winning touchdown when flirting with her.  Use the Desire System to create the type of sexual tension that turns her on.

7. Touch her

This is the right time to break the touch barrier. Start touching her gently, but only on her safe, non- threatening areas. You don’t want to be a creep.

This may include touching her hand lightly when making a point, touching the top of her shoulder when you want to draw her attention, or rubbing her back quickly when reassuring her about something.

Some women often feel threatened by this gesture and may pull away – a sign that you might have brought it a little too soon. However, if she doesn’t, then consider it a great success.